In my seminar Monday night, we looked at areas where we were not organized.
My emails, and the stress associated with trying to get through them each day, came to mind immediately. I get so many emails from companies trying to sell me, educate me, or sign me up for something that by the time I am through deleting them, I rarely have the mental fortitude left to deal with the real emails.
And, knowing that I might not be getting back to a client, completing a required form, or responding to my boss, weighs on my mind all day. It robs me of my energy and aliveness. Just thinking about it makes me tired.
So I created an action step: unsubscribe to at least 10 companies before our next seminar session.
Before the seminar was even over, I took out my phone and looked at my emails. The worry started immediately. What if I need to know what’s on sale at Chico’s? What if Ann Taylor has a really good dress being featured? What if I’m missing a good coupon at Bob’s? What if I ever decide to shop at Kohl’s? What if I want the 20% off my next book at Barnes & Noble?
I felt like I was trying to declutter my house and couldn’t make myself throw anything away. This wasn’t even things. I thought about it. If I really needed a coupon or something, I could google the regular site and find what I needed. Even if I kept getting the emails, I’d probably never find the one I needed, remember it was there, or use it before it expired.
I went to the first email. Chico’s. I found the unsubscribe button and clicked. Next was the Gap. After the first couple it got easier. Some of them wanted a reason. Simple – I am trying to get less emails.
So far I have taken myself off of 14 different emails. And guess what? This morning I could barely notice the difference.
So I’m going to keep going. The next few are a little harder. Do I really need to know when the Chamber of Commerce events are? I’m not even a member. But it’s something I probably should go to……………Well, I’m obviously not cured, but I’m a little better then I was before. Wish me luck.
TOTALLY understand this one! I tried using a program to unsubscribe from emails & it turned out to be only a temporary block, so now I am unsubscribing one at a time. *sigh*
So great to hear from you. I miss you but I can imagine you the night you were singing so beautifully in Mexico. I know you are making a difference wherever you are. Thanks for taking the request!!!!
Hilary