I have received ten comments on my blog. It hit that a week after my goal. My next milestone is five days from today. I need 5-15 more comments.
My first response is…….oh well, guess I won’t hit it. Who cares?
My second response is…….what are you, a resigned loser? How can we make this happen?
My first responder says……why do you need to be a hero? Enjoy your life. Don’t bother people. Just give up.
My second responder says……f—- you. I will do it to spite you. I can post it on my private facebook sites and ask my friends to check it out and comment. I’m going to do it right now….
OK – I did it. I put it a request on one facebook page. ( I almost gave up because the typing was minutes delayed, but I hung in there.)
I can put it on another one next. Why not?
So, the lesson here is: take the action anyway even if you don’t want to and you are arguing with yourself. It’s like exercise. You never feel worse if you do it, but you certainly torture yourself if you don’t.
Regret comes from inaction. When I’m thinking about what I need to do and not doing it, I exhaust myself thinking about what I should be doing. And, it makes no difference.
In sales, I’ve learned, that even if I don’t have success,but I’m in action, I can feel good about myself. Lying on my couch sleeping does not result in more appointments or sales. I tried it yesterday. Actually, it sort of did. I took a little break from my calls and emails and took a nap. When I woke up, I had a response from a client with a time to meet.
So I take that back. Sometimes a nap is a good thing, but as a break, not as the main activity of the day.
OK – I have a call in 3 minutes. Thanks for listening. And, get into action and tell me about it. How can I help you feel better about yourself and your goals?
I loved getting invited by you to read your blog on FB! It made me feel close to you. After reading your blog, it’s even more special, because you are writing about your personal and intimate experiences. I get to get to know you even more! xo
Thank you Sandy. I appreciate that you accepted my request. Let me know what you like or don’t like. I would appreciate the feedback. I am the possibility of Freedom. Having people read my stuff is a big breakthrough. Looking forward to hearing more from you. Hilary